The Walk-In Closet Trap

This picture is a trap, ladies! We don’t need an excessive amount of clothing or a closet the size of a living room to hold it all and primp. Here’s a simple truth: the smaller the closet, the better you will be dressed. Remember that one morning when you asked your child what they wanted to wear and opened the closet? You probably only did that once, didn’t you? Too many choices can clutter the mind. Think about a high-end clothing store compared to Walmart—less variety looks more luxurious.

The truth no one will tell you is that you only need a few critical items of clothing to always look like a million bucks.  You will take better care of your garments if you have less, less time and less money.

I create kimonos for a reason: a simple kimono has the ability to transform any outfit into something spectacular. It is a versatile garment that can be paired with many different looks. Additionally, it is durable enough to withstand regular wear, much like a fancy coat. You only need one quality kimono, not ten. Similarly, one good watch is better than six inexpensive ones in different colors. One pair of black heels is sufficient, rather than owning six pairs that you rarely feel comfortable in. 

A side note: I invest in shoes because it's surprising how much more comfortable a Coach stiletto is compared to one from Payless. While neither may be designed for long wear, the Coach shoe has decent quality, largely due to its insole.  Good quality is worth the money.  Craftsmanship is worth the money.  Durability is worth the money.

If you wear one high-quality, expensive item, you can pair it with any other older clothing and still look fantastic. This principle is known as Rule 1.

Rule 2

The best-dressed women tend to have a very simple wardrobe, composed entirely of timeless pieces instead of fast fashion. Their collections include flowing white pants, simple blouses, navy and white clothing in various styles, cardigan sweaters, and classic white shirts. 

The most effortless way to dress is by adopting a uniform similar to Steve Jobs: jeans paired with a black shirt. This approach simplifies shopping and eliminates the daily question of “What should I wear?”—you can just repeat what you wore yesterday. 

My personal uniform consists of jeans, a solid t-shirt with a cover-up, and cotton pants during the summer. It's easy and convenient. For fancy occasions like Christmas dinners, I follow Sharon Stone's lead: a white shirt with a nice skirt—simple and elegant.  Use what you already own; you will be surprised.

Closets in old houses tend to be small because women's wardrobes were much more limited than today. Nevertheless, women managed to look and feel well-dressed. It's worth talking to your mothers and grandmothers about this.

Lastly, Rule 3: limit yourself to three pieces of jewelry, including your watch. Any more, and it may come across as showing off and tacky.

Don't be misled by this picture; someone wants your money, not to improve your life.